Sonntag, 26. März 2017

How to not be involve anymore

I'm making this post for those and a reminder for myself how it is possible to get rid of the feeling "to be in love" 


Before I used to think that it is impossible to have control over your feelings and that you fall in love with a person and you can't do anything against it. Bless the world there is actually a way because being in love is s.th you can change. How everything is you need to work for it to earn it. 
I don't know why but when I am not in love I feel so free and there is nothing to worry about.
No need to worry if the guy likes the outfit I'm wearing if he's interested in me or just playing and how can I win him over. All that stuff is going on in my head and it is sooo difficult to concentrate on school stuff. 

Step 1 Things you need to do so you can start mentally getting rid of the feeling "being in love":

1. delete all photos of that person
and yes I mean ALL, no matter if it is without you or s.th they sent you

2. delete the whole chat via WhatsApp

3. delete the number

4. block the guy on every platform you have them
-> 'Cause otherwise you may stalk him on social media, the guy texts you, you look at the pictures and may think "Why can't we be together" and doing all this stuff make you feel UNHAPPY

5.avoid seeing the person in Real Life
->if you don't see him the faster you get rid of the feeling "being in love"

Step 2 Stop the chaos in your head:

I want you to ask yourself these questions:

- Is the amount being happy with him higher instead of being unhappy with him?
- Does he make me feel good about myself?
- Does he have a good personality?
- Is it better to be in a relationship with him or not?
- Do I want to spend my whole life with him?
- What is this going to bring me in live if I keep on stalking, crying over him , ...?
- Could I be happier when I am no more in love with him?
- Why am I wasting time on him when I could have fun in the most beautiful way I can imagine?


- Imagine how good you would feel when you got rid of the feeling being in love...

Step 3: Therapy starts with writing, drawing...

- make a pro and contra list of that guy
- get a diary -> write down one experience he made you feel like the most happiest person ever and where he made you feel the most sad person ever
 -> compare both. Is it worth being together happy with him when he can make you feel the opposite?

You don't necessarily need to write you can say this to someone you trust/ draw s.th

- do not just shake it off when he makes you feel unhappy. Every time we are truly in love we tend to shake it off or not thinking about the situation this person made s.th we didn't like. Instead, realize it don't ignore it

Step 4: Don't do this stuff:

- Don't deny that you miss, think, don't love him when you actually do
- Don't say every time: I am not allowed to love, think or miss him
-> there is nothing wrong about being in love with this guy or miss the guy you absolutely fall for.
You are absolutely allowed to do this stuff. Just let it go as Elsa said it. It's normal, be proud because it shows that you great person have feelings for him

Instead
-Admit everytime you catch yourself thinking, missing him. 

Step 5: The fun part

- do things that make you happy
- learn new things
- get good in school subjects you struggle with
- meet those friends and people that make you feel soo good
- watch any series you like to watch
- download the app: hello talk
(this is no product placement, but the app is good for improving your language skills in foreign languages and it's just fun getting to know others from abroad)

Step 6:
- admit you like him
- admit when he doesn't make you feel good
- change s.th if you want to change it
- make yourself feel happy


















Sonntag, 12. März 2017

Un repas que j'adore

(If you can't understand french skip this and scroll down)

Salut! Je veux faire ce texte en français, parce que je dois attendre français.
Aujourd'hui je montre mon repas préfère. C'est très delicieux, je trouve.
Alors tu dois avoir des ingriedients quelles sont:

- du fromage frais
- des wraps
- du concombre
- du paprika
- de la tomate

(Je n'ai pas utiliser des coriandere)



ça c'est le fromage frais que j'ai utiliser mais tu peux prendre un humus aussi.


Et maintenant on coupe des légumes.


Les légumes sont très joli.


On mettre le fromage frais sur le wrap.


J'ai ajouté du basilic, des poivre noir, du ail et du origan.


Et voilà c'est fini!



English version:

As you're wondering why I did this post in french is because I need to learn french or improve it.

Today I am going to show you my favorite meal. I think it's pretty delicious. 
You are going to need the following ingredients:

- cream cheese
- wraps
- gherkin
- paprika
- tomato

(I put green in the plastic bag in my photo but I didn't use them, 'cause I thought it wouldn't fit with the whole flavor)



This is my vegan cream cheese I used but you can use hummus or whatever you like instead.


Now we're going to cut the vegetables.


Looks so fresh, yummy and healthy.


I added black pepper, garlic powder, and oregano.


There it is a healthy vegan lunch recipe.

Au revoir ♡













Sonntag, 5. März 2017

French vibes



Whenever I hear french music or I watch a movie in french I have these beautiful pictures in my head. This happens only in this language and not in any other language. I love France, the language and the people from this country. Many german people don’t like french People. Their Argument is: “French people are arrogant”. I really don’t get it and the argument isn’t even strong, but anyway I have my opinion and they have theirs. 

I'm only 17, but I have already visited France so many times and it never gets boring. I would like to go there again. 

I feel like french people are very polite as they say "Pardon" really often. Some are really excited that you speak their language even when you have struggles. 




  This is literally one of the cutest movies with all french vibes. 
  I would enjoy this movie best with a cup of tee. 




  



Ridding a bike in France and exploring the city
(Picture by Unsplash.com)

  
Booking a hotel in France and waking up to exactly this kind of view.

(picture by Unsplash.com)


Sitting in pretty restaurant somewhere in the corner in Nice.
 (picture by Unsplash.com)

My favorite french songs:

-Pour que tu m'aimes encore Celine Dion
-Divine Idylle Vanessa Paradis
-Onizuka PNL

J'espère que vous avez aimé ce poste de mon blog.